How to deal with those who make your life miserable

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Is someone making you life miserable?
Would you like to know how to deal with that problem?

I found a great article for you.
Trust me you will love it.

It is written by Motivational Speaker Rene Godefroy,
someone whom I am very proud to call a friend.

Here it is...





How To Psychologically Disarm Those
Who Try to Make Your Life Miserable


What I am about to share with you can totally change your
life. And no, it is not sucking up.

It is a secret weapon that is your greatest source of power.

Use it to your advantage.

Let me explain.

Isn’t it annoying when you can’t get along with your boss,
colleagues, or subordinates?

Would you agree with me that spending 8 hours with an
annoying person is not fun?

That is very stressful. Isn’t it?

Years ago when I didn’t know better, I would advise you to
quit that job and find another one.

But you will probably meet another person just like that
person wherever you go.

You might say, â€"I don’t like to suck up. I want to be my own
boss.”

Well, losers call it sucking up
but winners call it making friends.

Besides, if you are planning to be your own boss one day, be
ready to suck up to your customers.

That's called customer service.

You see what I mean?

As the owner of your business, you better be prepared to go
out your way to please the customer. And that’s the only way
to be successful in business.

Having said that, I want you to know that the people who
tend to get on your last nerve sometimes suffer from
attention deprivation â€" low self-esteem.

What I mean by that is although they may appear as if they
are confident and in control on the outside, they are
probably feeling very small on the inside.

And therefore in order to feel better, they have to flex
their egotistical muscles.

Wouldn’t it be exciting if you knew how to control,
dominate, and reduce them to their lowest denominator?

That, my friend, would give you an unfair advantage.

Do you agree with me?

Are you excited to learn how to take charge and be in
control?

Here Are 4 Powerful And Proven Ways to do so:
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1) Acknowledge the person… and the personality.

Years ago, I worked for a jerk that used to push everyone
around - everyone except me.

Why?

I found a way to undermine his bullying.

I would subliminally slip words into our conversations that
would imply he was in charge.

The best part is, he didn’t know what I was doing.

Doesn’t it thrill you to know you can control any situation
by feeding someone’s ego?

Just by making my former â€"boss” think he was superior, I
could easily pull his strings like a puppet.

I could see a complete transformation in his behavior
towards me.

I literally controlled him and his actions. And I would
laugh on the inside every time.

Do you think you could try this?




2) Ask for their advice.

When you ask for someone’s advice, he or she automatically
feels a sense of worthiness.

All you have to say is, â€"I need your advice on… Or what do
you think of…"

Do you really need their advice?

Not really. But ask for it anyway.

It will make them feel valued. And it will cause them to let
their guard down and in turn have a better attitude. Power!




3) Make him or her feel important.

Remember that you may be dealing with a person that has a
huge ego.

Every now and then you have to stroke that ego.

Imagine that the person is walking around with a tattoo on
his or her forehead that says, â€"make me feel important
today.”

In most cases a sincere compliment can do the job. But some
others may require a little stroking.

By the way, everyone in this world craves one thing… the
need to feel important.

Some of us just go about it in different ways. By your
making this person feel important, you have conquered the
ego.

Power!




4) Get the person to talk about him or herself.

This should not be a hard one. The world is full of talkers.
I am one of them. But good listeners are too few and far
between.

And you know what? There are many wounded souls out there.

They need someone to give them the gift of listening.

I remember attending a social gathering where I consciously
decided to listen. One lady commented that I was a very good
conversationalist. And guest what? She did all the talking.
I was just a sounding board.

When you give others the opportunity to get things off their
chest and/or their weary mind, they feel indebted to you.

Power!

There you have it my friend.

People around you might say that you are sucking up. But if
you use what I have just shared with you wisely, you will
rise to a position of power and fame in no time.

You will have better relationships; you will be much
happier.

And those who criticize you will simply continue to live
frustrating lives at the mercy of others.

Have fun!

Article © by Rene Godefroy






Rene Godefroy is the award-winning author of No Condition is
Permanent, a motivational keynote speaker and business
consultant who shares ideas and strategies that helps
individuals achieve extraordinary results in theirs lives.

For more information, click on this link: Motivational Speaker





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Marie Calixte says...

That was very informative and very well said.
Thanks!
Please let me know when, and where you will have a conference.

I will do my best to be there in person.

I'm looking forward to this.

Marie

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